Do
you think God will bless you only if you are good enough? Or do you
think you are sick or suffering because you have not been good enough
in God's eyes? Are you consumed with what you think you ought
to be doing, with what your life should look like?
We
want to feel like we are doing the best we can – being a good mom,
a good friend, a good church member, a good Christian. Hoover felt
that way. But then she discovered her faulty thinking. She came to
realize that the most important thing to do is not be good, but to
trust God and acknowledge her weakness. Let's admit what we all know
from experience, she writes. “We can't live this Christian life. We
need help.” (95)
And
that's good news for us. Sometimes we allow our external activity to
take priority over internal transformation. That's because we're
gospel illiterate. Oh, we know the gospel, but we don't know how to
apply it. “We know what the gospel means for salvation, but
we have no idea what it means for every day.” (46)
Hoover
has many insights for goodness obsessed people, people who try to
live by the “goodness” gospel. She reminds us of the danger of
seeking man's approval, and of trying to win God's approval too. “The
Christian life really is impossible,” she writes. (92) Yet, “God
gives us what we need to live the Christian life, and he gives it in
the form of himself.” (93)
Two
of her insights were particularly meaningful for me. I found that
spiritual disciplines are not meant to be replacements for the Holy
Spirit. They are intended to be ways to ask for the Holy Spirit and
hear from Him. (103) I also understood from this book that living by
the goodness gospel will lead us to doubt God when we suffer. We
might think we've done something wrong and not been good enough for
God's blessing. But that is wrong thinking and takes us away from
God's plan for our lives.
If
you feel caught in that trap of trying to be good enough for God,
this book is good news. Hoover is committed to live in grace and has
done an excellent job in helping you do that too. There is a good
Discussion Guide so this would make a great choice for a woman's
study group. As Hoover writes, “We can live in grace and offer the
same grace to others.” (122) I highly recommend this book. Live in
grace.
Food
for thought: “The more we fear God and what he thinks, the less it
matters what others think and say about us.” (119)
Christine
Hoover is a pastor's wife, mom, speaker, and author of The Church
Planting Wife. She has written for The Gospel Coalition, Desiring
God, and Christianity Today. She lives in Virginia. You can
find out more about her and follow her blog at
http://www.gracecoversme.com/.
Baker
Books, 224 pages.
I
received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher for the
purpose of an independent and honest review.
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