People
are living longer and facing unknown territory. The person turning 65
can generally expect another two decades of life. Will those be happy
years? Thurman says they can be and identifies several critical factors and
gives many tips, ideas that just might make all the difference.
Thurman
shares his ideas within the context of his own experience of his wife
dying and his quitting his job. He knew he had to understand
happiness and how he could have it in his remaining years. While some
of our well-being depends upon genetics and life time medical care, he
found that some 60% of it is up to us and the choices we make. He
writes about five areas: mind, body, relationships, soul, and
finances. He explores purpose, pleasure, and peace in each of those
areas.
Thurman
has some good suggestions. I liked his purpose pyramid, identifying
levels of activity with giving to others at the top and the most
rewarding. There were some surprises, like the value of getting in
touch with your inner artist and practicing mindfulness. He deals
with serious issues like depression. His chapter on dying was
sobering but full of valuable information.
He
has included much valuable information in Appendixes. I learned how
to inform others upon my death how to deal with my personal requests,
finances, insurance, will, and much more. He includes forms I can
fill out or at least use as templates. Every senior should have this
information to make it much easier for others after our death.
I
recommend this book to those who are entering into that third time of
life and want to maintain or increase happiness as the years go by.
You'll find good information and practical suggestions. This book
will help you be intentional about the quality of your life as you grow older.
My
rating: 4/5 stars.
Eric
Thurman began his career as a broadcast journalist with coverage or
appearances on many major media outlets. He was an early leader of
the microfinance movement and headed antipoverty programs in 30
less-developed nations. His mission now is helping people find
meaning and enjoyment during the last third of life. He lives in
Illinois.
Waterbrook,
240 pages. This book releases February 26.
I received a complimentary an advanced uncorrected proof of this book from the publisher. My comments are an independent and honest review.
I received a complimentary an advanced uncorrected proof of this book from the publisher. My comments are an independent and honest review.
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