The short answer is, He didn't. In The Paradox of Perfection you will discover that the perfection Christ commands of us is actually possible here and now in this life, but to achieve it we must learn a new, properly Christian language of perfection. Relational experts, Dr. Jeffrey Reber and Steven Moody, will teach you this language and help you learn that the perfection Christ commands of you is not individual flawlessness, but a form of relationship with Him that depends precisely upon your weaknesses and imperfections, which enable Christ's perfect love within you, your marriage, your family, and your church.
We want to appear perfect. At church we put on a smile, maintaining an appearance even if our world is falling apart. The authors argue that we are not to hide our imperfections. Honesty with others, sharing our flaws, is actually the path to completeness in Christ.
The style of this book is somewhat academic. The authors refer to Kierkegaard, for example, and his writing on Christ's abasement. The authors also spend some time exploring the human ability to imagine perfection. Such an image tantalizes us but we can never achieve it in our efforts, hence frustration.
This would be a good book for pastors, counselors and church leaders involved in helping Christians live the life Christ desires. Lay people will not find a practical strategy on how to deal with being a perfectionist but rather a a theological exploration of the command to be perfect, what it really means and walking on the path of weakness.
You can watch the book trailer here.
My rating: 4/5 stars.
About the Authors:
Jeff Reber and Steve Moody are educators and therapists who specialize in relational approaches to issues at the intersection of faith and psychology. They have given presentations on perfectionism to audiences across the continent and have published scholarly articles, book chapters, and books on this and other important societal epidemics.
Crosslink Publishing, 177 pages.
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