Have
you read Fifty Shades of Grey? Gresh was sure Christian women
would not be reading it. She was wrong. Spiritual women do read
erotica. Slattery reluctantly decided to read the books, knowing she
would coauthor a book about them.
This
book was birthed as a result of the impact of the Fifty Shades books.
It is a book about longings, questions, and wholeness as spiritual
and sexual women. Many Christian women will not talk about their
psychological and physical longings. Some have turned to erotica,
thinking that will fulfill their needs. The authors reveal the
dangers of doing so. It is chasing after a fantasy, a distortion of
reality.
Slattery
argues that there is a spiritual agenda to the Fifty Shades books.
The intended spiritual destination is destruction. The authors
explore the spiritual nature and sacredness of sex, the lies in
erotica and the long-term effects of reading it, the nature of
submission, the source of true sexual pleasure, being spiritually
satisfied in Jesus, repentance, and action to take.
The
authors have included many stories from women to support their
arguments. They also identify reality: “Life is hard; not every
longing you have on earth will be fulfilled.” (119)
As
the authors note, this book is not ultimately about the Fifty Shades
series of books or even erotica. “This book is about the spiritual
battle for the hearts and souls of women.” (146) It is not only an
encouragement to throw out the junk but also to join in the call for
revival among God's women. There is a good section with questions for
group discussion so this would make a great choice for a women's
group. There is also an appendix with very practical ideas for
victory over sexual sin.
Note:
potential readers need to know that these authors are very frank in
their discussion. They cover sexual practices I've not seen discussed
with such openness and clarity before.
This
book is serious. It is a serious topic and one that needs to be
addressed and talked about by Christian women. If you or a friend are
trying to find satisfaction in erotica, I urge you to read this book.
Dannah
Gresh is the founder of Pure Freedom and bestselling author of
And the Bride Wore White and What Are You Waiting For?.
She and her husband live in State College, Pennsylvania and have
three children.
Dr.
Juli Slattery is a clinical psychologist and coauthor of Passion
Pursuit, written with Linda Dillow, her cofounder of Authentic
Intimacy. She and her husband have been married for 18 years and have
three children. Find out more at www.AuthenticIntimacy.com
and www.moodyradio.org/javawithjuli.
Moody
Publishers, 176 pages.
I
received a complimentary copy of this book through Icon Media Group
for the purpose of an independent and honest review.