I
remember those TV families of the 1950s. The dad was a strong but
compassionate father, the mother stayed home, and all the kids worked together and got along
well. Is it possible to have families like that today?
Keesee
says it is. To have that kind of family, however, one must have the
principles that go along with it. She has written this book to share
the vintage family model and the principles that make is possible.
There
is a great deal of information in this book that modern families
could use. We start by focusing on what really matters. There is an
emphasis of turning to God and focusing on Him. He has the wisdom
needed so we must prioritize a relationship with Him. We must also
understand how Satan is working to destroy the family.
The
four building blocks Keesee uses are discipline, love, faith, and
example. She has a great chapter on discipline, why it is needed, and
how it can be done in today's society. It is not a popular topic
today but it “has the power to make or break a family” she says.
She gives plenty of suggestions on how to establish discipline and
stick with it.
I
really liked her section on example. Kids model what they see and
they should be seeing evidence of God in our lives. Keesee home
schooled so her children saw their parents and how they lived their
lives every day. Part of that was an entrepreneurial spirit and the
children grew up being involved in the parent's business. There is a
chapter emphasizing how that worked in their family.
Developing
a family the way God designed it to be will not happen by accident. I
can tell from reading this book that parents must put much prayer,
thought, and action into it. It takes work to set boundaries and
stick with them. It takes conscious effort to model the kind of adult
you want your children to be.
This
book is not a “how to” manual for developing a godly family. It
is a revelation of how the Keesee family did it with plenty of stories
and examples of how principals work. You'll still need to decide
whether to home school or not, whether to allow your kids to date or
to encourage courting, etc.
I
recommend this book for parents of all ages - there is even a chapter
on grand parenting and one for the parent of a prodigal. Reading this
book is an encouragement. It is possible to develop a family the way
God intended, raising godly adults. Reading this book will help you
get on the right path.
You
can find out more about the book here.
You
can watch the book promotion video here.
My
rating: 5/5 stars.
Drenda
Keesee is a television show host, author, speaker, entrepreneur, and
pastor. She and her husband have created several successful
businesses and are the founders of Faith Life Now. They also pastor
Faith Life Church near Columbus Ohio and are the CEOs of Forward
Financial Group. You can find out more at http://drenda.com/ and
Faith
Life Now, 271 pages.
I
received a complimentary copy of this book through Son Studios for
the purpose of an independent and honest review.
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