This
may well be the best book I have read on Christian parenting. It answers so
many questions and is full of biblical and practical instruction.
We
live our lives intentionally, planning and making lists. Yet we think
we can raise godly children without doing so intentionally.
Shepherding a child to a godly adulthood does not just automatically
happen. The Comer's provide the theological basis for intentional
parenting as well as suggestions for developing a parenting plan that
is effective and doable.
I
am impressed with the biblical foundation they lay. For example, they
reference Luke 2:52 and outline the three areas to intentionally
focus on: character development, relationship building, and spiritual
training. The tools they employ are also based on a biblical basis,
such as 2 Timothy 4:2.
The
Comers walk readers through the growth stages, giving practical
suggestions along the way. They have insights into guiding the strong
willed child. They advocate really knowing each child and how that
shapes parenting techniques. They clarify the difference between
punishment and discipline. They help readers to know what to do if
they've parented in a wrong way so far. And perhaps my favorite
emphasis is that parents must themselves be passionate followers of
Jesus and model that behavior.
The
Comers share how they formed their own vision of raising disciples
for generations. That vision shaped their parenting goals and even
determined which television programs they watched. Knowing that one
plan does not work for all families, they help readers develop their
own parenting visions and plans.
I
highly recommend this book to parents and potential parents. You will
find within its covers a wealth of information and practical help in
raising godly adults.
My
rating: 5/5 stars.
Phil
and Diane Comer founded Westside: A Jesus Church (Solid Rock) in
Portland, Oregon. They also went on to launch INTENTIONAL: Raising
Passionate Jesus Followers conferences. They have been married for
nearly forty years and have four grown children and a number of
grandchildren. You can find out more at
https://www.intentionalparents.org/.
Zondervan,
304 pages.
I
received a complimentary copy of this book through Handlebar. My
comments are an independent and honest review.
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