I
can't imagine there is anything more painful than losing a child,
regardless of the circumstances. It is important, Swalwell writes,
that parents have the freedom to share their feelings with others who
understand. This book comes out of her own experience and the desire
to find a book that would comfort her and offer hope despite the
pain. She has compiled these stores as evidence of personal tragedy
and yet with ultimate victory.
At
first, I found these stories heart breaking. Each of the thirteen
contributors share their own pain, emotional and physical. I read
about the grief and the anger. Some expressed feelings of guilt (What
did I do wrong?). Some thought they were being punished by God. Then
I realized each person shared their recovery. These people were
survivors and their stories encourage each of us. We will survive
too. As the last story, written by the father of a ten year old who
died of cancer, reveals, one will never be the same. But there is a
new place of realizing that Christians do not grieve as those who
have no hope. There will come a time when the entire family will be
united again, in heaven.
This
is a good book for those who want to understand the experience of
losing a child, whether it be through miscarriage or the death of an
older child. Although I have not lost a child, I can now begin to
understand what the experience brings with it in pain and grief.
Swalwell
reports that 25% of women experience a miscarriage. If that includes
you, you will find kindred souls in this book. Men and women who have
experienced the same kind of pain. And if you have not experienced
that pain, reading this book will help you minister to those who
have. I highly recommend it.
Cheri
Swalwell is the mother of three children who live with her and
husband and one child they will meet in heaven some day. She is a
regular contributor for Book Fun Magazine and Life to the Fullest.
Check out her blog at www.chariswalwell.com
or “like” her on Facebook.
Spoken
from the Heart, 216 pages. You can buy the book here.
I
received a complimentary digital copy of this book through The Book
Club Network for the purpose of an independent and honest review.
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