Ward
wants us to change the way we see the past and our attitude toward
the future. “In this book,” he writes, “I will share how you
can liberate yourself and protect yourself from victim mentality by
reconditioning and preconditioning your mind to see yourself as a
winner.” (xv) He identifies everyday pitfalls, gives steps to
prepare for mentally dealing with future events, looks at how negative events shape our mentality, shares his own personal journey, gives
lessons from the Bible, shares the destructive power of heard and
spoken words, looks at the family, and gives techniques for
liberating one's self from a mentality of defeat.
This
is a great introduction to getting rid of victim mentality. I really
like his emphasis on perception. A person with a victim mentality
will tend to “read” victimization into circumstances. A person
with a Zero Victim mentality will tend to “read” victimization
out of circumstances. Interpretation of events is based on the
perception of our self and our life. Changing the “lens” through
which we see life will really make a difference in our attitude about
life. (62) He gives plenty of stories of people to illustrate that
principle.
Becoming
a Zero Victim individual will take work. It will mean training the
mind for better responses to daily events and training the tongue to
speak thoughtfully and positively. Mental preparedness is key and
that takes work. Ward also lays the biblical foundation for the
mindset and the necessity of being a new creation in Christ.
We
can decide how to react to potentially negative events. Developing
the Zero Victim mindset can be done. Ward includes some very good
techniques to get us on our way. His suggestions do lack practical
steps for implementation so I would suggest this book be read and
discussed with a trusted friend. Friends can hold each other
accountable as progress is made.
James E. Ward Jr. was called to ministry after studying music and business at
DePaul University in Chicago. He founded INSIGHT Church in Skokie,
IL, in 2013. He earned his MDiv from Regent University in Virginia
Beach. He and his wife have two children. You can find out more at
http://www.jw-mi.org/ and
http://zerovictim.com/.
James
Ward Ministries, 126 pages.
I
received a complimentary copy of this book through The Barnabas
Agency for the purpose of an independent and honest review.
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