Tucker
wants Christians to be honest. He begins with honesty on the
individual level and then what it means in the Christian community.
He shares many of his own experiences with honestly, or lack of it,
and encourages us to
authentic transparent relationships.
Transparency,
Tucker says, is what sets the stage for genuine transformation. He
struggled with pornography and much of the honesty promoted in the
book revolves around it. Because of this, women may have difficulty
identifying with Tucker's stories, as I did. Also, Tucker apparently
had counseling (59) so there is more to his dealing with the issue
than just being honest with others.
I
pretty much agree with Tucker's call for honesty. I would offer some
caution. Tucker said he became ruthlessly honest with people he knew
could help him (including his counselor) and that is important.
Blurting out one's sins could be disastrous. Perhaps it should be
done only in a trusted setting.
I
think Tucker deals with only a part of the gospel in this book. He
writes, “...the truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ, which exclaims
God's reality that all are loved, all are welcome, all are desired,
and all are accepted.” (81) “The issues with the church and
homosexuality is not whether homosexuality is right or wrong. The
issue is whether or not we will receive the homosexual in the same
way that Christ has received us.” (79)
What
Tucker fails to address is what happens after that. What about church
discipline? (See what Paul commands for one living in unrepentant
sexual sin in 1 Cor. 5.) What about the whole issue of God
disciplining us because he loves us, not wanting us to continue to
sin? (Heb. 12:4-11) What about discipleship? Once we have welcomed
them, as Christ welcomes us, how do we love them through discipleship
and discipline, as God does because He loves us?
Here's
another example of Tucker telling half the story of the gospel.
Writing about Paul and Galatians, “He explains freedom as something
that exists simply because it is good that it is exists, and that we
are intended to experience it for freedom's sake alone.” (127) The
footnote refers us to Galatians 5:1. Tucker did not include the other
side of freedom, where Paul says, “But do not use your freedom to
indulge in the flesh...” (Gal. 5:13b) Nor does he write about the
restriction Paul places on a Christian's freedom in 1 Cor. 9:23-33.
Tucker
goes on, “All He asks is that we confess our need for Him, receive
His grace, and give His grace to those who need it most.” (136)
That is a good beginning to living the gospel life, but what about,
“So whatever you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the
glory of God” (1 Cor. 10:31)?
Tucker
writes, “We no longer need to strive to become perfect. We can live
under the umbrella of God's grace.” (136) What about Paul's
commands to rid ourselves of certain behavior and “put on” others
(Col. 3:8,12)? What about Paul beating his body into submission? (1
Cor. 9:27) What about all the other behavior commands we find in the
new Testament, like not being sexually immoral (1 Cor. 10:8)?
Tucker
writes, “...what I really want is for people to come together in a
place where everyone can be honest. Where everyone, imperfect as we
are, can be received with grace.” (119) I agree. But let us not
forget – that is only part of the gospel. That is the “nor do I
condemn you” from Jesus. We must also include the rest of the
gospel, the “go and leave your life of sin” part. (John 8:11)
This
is a very simplistic look at a complex issue. It leaves so many
questions unanswered. When a believer is honest about his sexual
immorality, how do we help that person “do all to the glory of God”
(1 Cor. 10:31) and “flee sexual immorality” (1 Cor. 6:18)? How do
we disciple? What is the role of church discipline and how is it done
to God's glory?
This
book is an encouragement to be honest and live transparently in the
Christian community. You will have to go elsewhere, however, to find
out how that is actually lived out in a lifetime of glorifying God.
Rod
Tucker is the founding pastor of The River:pm, a church site in
Kalamazoo, Michigan. Rod and his wife live in Kalamazoo. You can find
out more about him at rodtuckersays.com.
Kregel
Publications, 160 pages.
I
received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher for the
purpose of an independent and honest review.
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